"He who asks is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not asks remains a fool forever" ~ Chinese Proverb.
Assumption is the sure way to the destruction of a good relationship. What does it cost to just ask for clarification? In a father to daughter, wife to husband, brother to sister, fiancé to fiancée and boss to employee relationship, there should have been some degree of trust developed overtime, and this level of trust that has been built cannot be denied all of a sudden over a flimsy baseless matter. If the so-called matter has a base, the next question would be, "has the truth been tested?" Do not be afraid to ask questions to clarify distortion or to challenge a lie. Everyone should be able to develop a pattern of open communication where issues are resolved without delay after the facts or forever remain bitter. On my quest for success, i will develop the habit of open communication with everyone by resolving issues based on facts the moment they are birthed.
Assumption is the sure way to the destruction of a good relationship. What does it cost to just ask for clarification? In a father to daughter, wife to husband, brother to sister, fiancé to fiancée and boss to employee relationship, there should have been some degree of trust developed overtime, and this level of trust that has been built cannot be denied all of a sudden over a flimsy baseless matter. If the so-called matter has a base, the next question would be, "has the truth been tested?" Do not be afraid to ask questions to clarify distortion or to challenge a lie. Everyone should be able to develop a pattern of open communication where issues are resolved without delay after the facts or forever remain bitter. On my quest for success, i will develop the habit of open communication with everyone by resolving issues based on facts the moment they are birthed.
Develop the habit of open communication!
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