We make the bed we lay on by the attitude we portray day after day. Take a break from the usual you this new year. The usual you used to be filled with negative attitude and that got you in trouble and hid all the good things of life from you. Bad attitude sends the wrong message or signal to people. Bad attitude puts off the kindest of humans and sends them flying above your head to assist someone else. A bad attitude starts from how you perceive people, your reaction to what they say and eventually it shows up in your body language. Purpose this New Year to be humble. Humility is respecting authority, being thankful, showing up early at work, study when necessary and doing the right things when no one is watching. Remember: humility is the foundation of every good attitude. Once this is set, your attitude will change and people who did not like to see you would be drawn to your light. Get a new attitude to life!
Friday, December 30, 2011
If you missed the mark, propose in your heart to have a fresh start. A fresh start means, dedication and love to family members, focus on a career path and having good relationship with people regardless of their age, sex, race, religion and opinion of life-these are the basics of life. Remember: your life is a reflection of how you have dealt with people and situations. Be careful this time around to make it right. Get back to the basics of life!
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Common sense eludes some folks. Wisdom is something everyone should not fiddle with. Wisdom takes you to places where you cannot go by yourself. For instance, a dad who was divorced just got married to a lady you do not like. Your wisdom as a child is to play the fool by smiling at her joke and helping her around the house, by so doing your dad would be loved more and in-turn you would get the result of your kind actions. Folks who do not possess wisdom act the opposite way, which would amount to chaos that may not be repaired. Wisdom is making the right odd choices. Wisdom is setting the right standard and doing the right thing at the right time. Wisdom is, planning for each day, month and year. Go for wisdom, it’s the best driver of a good life!
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
Life is beautiful and colorful like the rainbow. You are a rainbow. Be mindful of the color you put on. Living life as free as a child is very much advocated. A child has no enemy, takes no record of wrong done, have no inhibition or is not embarrassed at any point in time. We receive exactly what we put in life. If you want the best in life, learn how to live as a child. At times, you may see the evil in humans but look the other way and focus on enjoying life all the same. Remember, when you are angry, you make life miserable for you and all around. When you are happy you exude same. So, why not deliberately stay happy by overlooking wrong. I bet overtime you would not bother about the wrong but about making it right at all times. Spread the rainbow people!
Monday, December 26, 2011
It's not the end of the world, if your experiences this season is painful. Create your own environment. Create a world of your own where you would be happy. Deliberately brighten up, do not allow the negative happening of the surrounding affect you adversely. You create your environment by giving allowance for people’s flaws, like you know they will make mistakes because they are human. Now that you know people can be somewhat nasty why not be happy already, knowing they are only human.
Sunday, December 25, 2011
Saturday, December 24, 2011
Choose to be happy irrespective of your present circumstance. Choose to wear a smile and let nothing dissuade you from enjoying your day. You might have been criticized all year long, refuse to be downed. Remember, you are like the sun that rises every day. The sun cannot be downed by anyone. It rises in its time and sets in its time. You are in control of how you feel. Smile or laugh at will and do it freely. You would be creating an environment of comfort and encouragement for yourself. No-one can help you do this except you. Irrespective of how you feel, control train yourself to smile or laugh, before long, it would be part of your personality. Be happy this season and always.
Friday, December 23, 2011
This season comes with all forms of indulgence. Dinning and wining is the norm. Choose family or who to be with and where to go. Be wise in your decision. Be wise in the choices you make. Lots of unimaginable deeds are practiced. Be wise to use this platform to show excellence in all you do. Let excellence be your brother at home, at work and on the road. Remember, excellence is the only representative when your name is sounded in unknown quarters. Be wise!
Thursday, December 22, 2011
This is a season for sharing. Share something with someone. It is much better to share with someone whom you had a misunderstanding, someone who is sick, someone who hurts, the children, the downtrodden, the helpless, elderly/seniors. Do not use this season to start asking for gifts. You lend a helping hand, make someone happy!
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Each of us is made in a unique way. You display unique characteristics that cannot be found in another. Me also. Each of us has a purpose and a passion for something. Find that thing you have a passion to fulfill and that’s your purpose. Blossom and Fly in it. You cannot do what I do. I am me and you are you and the world will be a better place for this. Never be me!
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Your beauty is like the rising of the sun. Beautiful in all facets, just the way you are. Your eyes, your hands, your feet, your daily outfit and all that makes you, YOU. Your beauty also transcends your physical outlook. Your beauty oozes from inside out by your kind actions and loving soul. You cannot be hid. Your beauty transcends the human mind and no human can comprehend the beauty therein. Let nothing down this sun!
Monday, December 19, 2011
A woman received a phone call one Friday night, from a man in State A who's neice was in State B and he asked if she could help organize a birithday ceremony for the niece, that, whatever funds she expends, he would pay into her account. She was scared and thought it was risky but she went ahead anyways. The birthday was a success and the man gave her a tip of 2/5 of the total funds. Another time of the same year, this woman needed funds to establish her business, this same person she assisted, helped her with half a million to realize the business. They were both successful. Never run away from risk taking. That sick folk you are assisting might be well again and may be your saviour in life. Good deeds are always rewarded. It doesn't necessarily have to be from the one you once assisted.
Sunday, December 18, 2011
The world houses people and we all have our purposes for being. Find your purpose and answer to it. It could be singing to a targeted audience, changing their lives and in turn getting rewarded financially. It could be helping someone get direction. It could be taking care of the seniors/elderly. It could be donation of food to the poor. Building free houses for the homeless. As a nurse it could be, using your house temporarily to deliver pregnant woman, for free. Find your purpose!
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Do not catch yourself discouraging a family member or your friend on their idea to succeed. They may have an idea that seem ridiculous to you but please do something by either supporting them or telling them how it can be better, if you know how. Discouragement is the beginning of failure for them. They would not ever think they would be successful again. Do something to get them there.
Friday, December 16, 2011
Sometimes, it hurts to see loved ones take the wrong path. Its mind boggling, when all you do is try to help but they don’t seem to get it right. Take a step higher by not giving up on them. Remember, love sees no wrong. Do not yell at them, politely call them aside and talk like one who cares, overtime, they will get it right. Take a step higher- don’t stop providing. Be the change you want to see, by doing what you know best to do to bring them up to that place you so desire.
Thursday, December 15, 2011
You have been planning to save some funds every month for your education, shed some weight, get the house organized, buy a house, see that dentist, pay for somebody's tuition, get a job, start a business, see a sick family member, see your mum, see your dad, help someone get direction in life, go back to school, IT IS TIME JUST DO IT!
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Give up on habits you have been fighting to get rid of. Take realistic steps to get rid of them. If the doctors says to stop eating eggs because of your high cholesterol level and you are so addicted to it, help yourself by not going close to it in the mall and buying them in the fridge. You could eat something close to it-beans (protein). This is a realistic step to reduce your cholesterol level. Just do it!
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Today is another day to live. Another day to forgive. Another day to help that person. Another day to find a way out of that tunnel. Another day to be strong, despite the huge bill. Another day not to file for bankruptcy but to find a way out seeking advise from good friends and bankers. Another day to re-strategize for advancement on your career. Another day to give a little more love to someone you do not know. Another day for a change in your character. Another day to smile. Another day to move on already from heartbreak. Another day to settle that dispute. It's another day!
Monday, December 12, 2011
When you are feeling down and out, know you have been boxed into a corner by unfavorable situations and events. Leave that position by re-strategizing and finding a new way to face those situations and events. Keeping quiet and sulking will only box you in more. There is always a way out of every tunnel. Don't loose hope!
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Saturday, December 10, 2011
You are you. Do not try to impress anyone by doing things, saying things or dressing to impress anyone. Laugh freely, smile freely. Recline if you need to. Cry if you want to. If you do not have the funds now to do stuff, work more for it or approach a good friend who understands. Do not get funds to buy material stuff to impress but to get further in your plan to succeed. Be you always!
Friday, December 9, 2011
When you are faced with seemingly huge problem that seem to cover your path, what do you do? It can be likened to a lion trying to get a hold of your child at the backyard. Be bold, stand tall, think fast and respond immediately before it takes your child. Either you distract the lion or you you kill the lion. Stand tall, think fast and respond immediately to every issue stopping you from getting to your destination. Don't cower be bold!
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Everyday comes with its own beauty, protection and care. Be open to receive by showering these on someone. Say something beautiful to someone, give a helping hand to the weak and care for the downthrodden and helpless, by so doing, you set yourself up to receive same in return, somehow. Be open to receive!
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Everyone thinks kindness is all about giving. Kindness is giving and much more. Kindness is an out stretched arm to the seniors who are sick. A smile at someone walking beside you and lots more. Not despising them. It is a soothing relief for you to be kind. So be kind!
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Today is a gift. Freely you received today and freely you would give. Allow people be themselves when they are around you. Let them enjoy the liberty today has given you. Give them a smile. Cheer them up if they do well and scold them with kindness, when they do wrong. Do not be judgemental. Let them live life freely purposefully. Today is a gift.
Monday, December 5, 2011
It is a new dawn and the sky's and trees and all nature is ready for the day; ready to blossom, ready to take in the morning dew, snow and cold. Are you ready for today. Get up, brace up and make your plans happen. The day is always ready for your success.