Have you ever heard someone saying the doctor was the cause of death of their loved one?
In my opinion, this is an inaccurate and unkind remark. Doctors help to save lives, and no one doctor is out to undo a patient. Yes, it is frustrating and painful when a loved one dies but it is unkind to say the doctor killed them. Be kind and gracious for all the work doctors do always. Don’t catch yourself saying anything incurrate and unkind against the people who help save lives in the way they know best to do.
Bottom-line: Do not make the doctor the object of your frustration at any time.