Commander-in-Chiefs' do very good work on the nation or country they govern. They do not allow aliens invade and take over their own.
Do likewise. You are in charge of your life and how it turns out. Do a good job in governing and caring for it. Stir your entire life the right direction.
If it seem hard, do not be shy to seek help or guidance immediately from your mentor or persons you greatly adore, whose lives are worth emulating.