Life is a two way street; do unto others what you expect of them.
If you are looking for the right person, be the right person first. If you want a good job, invest in your self-development first. If you want a good life, sacrifice for it. If you are own a firm and looking for the best candidate to fit a position, improve your employment package. If you want respect, respect others.
Whatever you so desire or want, be ready to be that thing first and see how quickly your desire surfaces.